Concept2 min read · Reviewed September 3, 2026
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Connection Insights
Premium reflections built from finished rituals: what resonates, where you pause, and what you reveal together.
Connection Insights are Premium reflections built from completed rituals. They summarize patterns without turning the relationship into a score. Open them from Home > Insights.
What Insights Show
| Section | What it summarizes |
|---|---|
| What resonates | Themes and prompts you both marked as meaningful, independently. |
| Where you pause | Which themes you tend to pass on, and which you lean into. |
| Choosing to be seen | How often you chose to reveal a Private Pulse, out of the ones where you made a choice. |
| The depth you choose | How the depth of your rituals shifts over time (1 Light · 2 Playful · 3 Deep · 4 Spicy). |
| Seen together | How often you both chose to show a Private Pulse, next to your own reveal rate. |
| Background | Supporting counts, including completed rituals and resonance moments. |
Availability and Empty States
- Insights require active Premium. Free accounts see an explanation and can open the paywall.
- New accounts see an empty state until they finish rituals.
- Insights use only activity already shared with Bonded. Spoken answers are never recorded.
- More completed rituals make the reflections more representative, but Bonded does not present them as clinical or relationship judgements.
- A Private Pulse that was not mutually revealed stays out of the aggregate.
Insights Troubleshooting
| Problem | Meaning | What to try |
|---|---|---|
| A Premium prompt appears | The signed-in account has no active Premium entitlement. | Purchase or restore Premium with the store account originally used. |
| No reflections appear | No completed rituals are available yet. | Finish a few rituals and return. |
| Insights fail to load | The app could not fetch the latest aggregate. | Check the network, reopen the screen, and confirm the right account. |
| A private pulse is missing | It was not mutually revealed, or is outside the current aggregate. | Private values stay excluded unless both people revealed them. |
Next steps
If this does not resolve the issue, check the related path below or use the support checklist with the exact error or screen name.
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